Just to clarify I posted this ad before on CL and got a number of responses thinking I want to get married tomorrow. Oh No! No! No! I just meant I'm looking for someone who would like to settle down in a couple years. There are some guys out there who know they are ready for that, and others who know they won't be ready for that for a long time. I'm in no rush but what concerns me is that I look around me and see all these girls my age scarfing up guys because they want to be married and have a baby, and I'm afraid there will be no one good left. Seems most of the marriage-minded guys definitely want to have someday, and the guys who don't aren't marriage-minded. I want real swingers.